My Over Articulate & Exceedingly Verbal Life


~ A Tryst Blessing ~

Upon waking up or going to sleep, bless each night and day …

On passing people in the street, on the bus, in places of work and play, bless the people on your way.

On meeting others and speaking with them, bless them in your heart.

As you walk, bless the city, bless the leaders, bless the messed up people sleeping in the park.

What does it mean when I say to bless?

I mean wish for them from deep within your being through sincere intensity … their very best.

I mean wish for them their purpose and complete happiness in every day that they are given.

I mean wish for them that they might truly live among the living.

Wherever you’re at, whomever you’re with … bless their lives for all they wish.

 This is beautiful.
Simply beautiful.
Selflessness in its finest.
A pure example of decency, humility, and kindness.
A thought of thoughtfulness.
A truth of living with a respectful mind.
A recipe of health for your heart.
Giving light to others from deep inside your own soul.

Feeding love and life to you, your atmosphere, your moments, your tomorrow, the people of the world, and while karma is always watching, waiting, whispering its truest of wisdoms … while you are practicing a virtue worth every minute you spend doing exactly this –
Blessing this world, its spirits & souls, our lives & all those who are different and the same, for we are all beautiful examples of broken disasters and the finest success, we are all worth blessings as we are all waking up each day, with each rising sun, living to feel, seek and to find, the meaning of our own beings, with the hope of happiness … in life, we are all blessed with this gift.
It is up to us to carry on the act of kindness in order to survive in a world of misfits and chaos.
 To treat others the way in you wish to be treated is a known piece of wisdom, and it’s simple and true .. show the world what you wish to be shown to you!
For more written expressions of ones heart and soul… take a peek inside!!! Thank you for being here!!! Xo
~ A Tryst Publication ~


Life is a Paradox

Life is a paradox. Nothing stays the same forever. We grow, we change, we learn, we experience and we teach… This is my space to be free, to be me and to write about my journey through life. I am honored by those who follow my words and poetic pieces. My hope is to touch another soul, relate to another or the world by showcasing how similar we are, and also so beautifully different… as well as be original, writing from my heart & soul.

‘We always have *Soulshine* … even in the rain’ -Jen LeFever


 My spirit likes to be free,  my soul likes to shine.


  Think. Speak. Tryst. 

Allow me to ellaborate some …

For as long as I can remember, I have always been very curious to the things that go on in the world around me. I’ve always been a thinker. I like to get answers, understand the logic of things, and express wisdom’s of my own upon the world as well. Putting pen to paper is a habit of nature for me. My ability to take my thoughts, feelings, emotions, wishes, desires, laughter, tears and everything else, pull them out of my mind, flow through my finger tips, and on to paper is effortless and enjoyable.
 I like to tryst with the universe and all of its elements … finding my free-spirited soul, shinning somewhere, under the sun:)

This blog is called Think.Speak.Tryst. I will write about the things I and We think, the things our spirits talk about, and tryst, of course is the blog itself. (Tryst is a date or a rendezvous..) Its my personal space to write the millions of thoughts & experiences I have had or shared with others and intellectually stimulate my desire to write the things I think and speak ~

Keep in mind I am a woman, an individual, my own mind only writing to express myself. I’m neutral to others opinions, non prejudice against others and conflicting opinions, and I have a true sense of admiration, respect, and honor of people, as I believe people are truly unique and amazing in their own ways.

We are all in possession of spirit. It is in those spirits that inhabit our world and make this universe a truly remarkable place. For those that read my blog, I hope you enjoy our tryst of things to think & speak.

Think. Speak. Tryst. & My Over Articulate & Exceedingly Verbal Life ~ J Lefever


©Think. Speak. Tryst. Publication

16 responses to “My Over Articulate & Exceedingly Verbal Life

  1. Love what you had to say about wishing for others. I wish more people would be able to understand the power that holds. Thanks for putting it all so eloquently.
    Keep writing


    • Go in to Tryst and visit my catagories … I have my work very organized and you can get a deep look into my delicate soul & sensitive relationship with love & loving people & survival in my recovery. Real & raw → its all in the pages of Tryst. (Sigh…) Things have been very hard this year .. but I’m still breathing , still

      • OMG Jen. How are you? I have missed you. I thought you were lost to WP what with being so busy and all. I am good as can be expected and hope you are too. I hope you drop in often and read my work. If you ever have time and would like to continue the Duet we started ever so long ago I would love to continue collaborating with you. I don’t know if you still have my email address but if you do, drop me a line. If not I can provide it here for you. XOXO. SO GLAD TO HEAR FROM YOU LOVELY FRIEND.

  2. Jen, no wonder we cosmically found one another on I live by the same mantra and I am always sending well wishes cosmically to people, thanks for putting it out there! xo

    • I am so glad we have found each other!! I think it is so cool, how people and their paths cross in life!! It seems that life hands us special gifts, whether it’s people, or moments, or spiritual things from the universe, or our own Soulshine from deep within. I look for these events, these gifts, these people/spirits that I get to connect with .. and I cherish them greatly! I cherish YOU greatly!! Thank you for being a part of my Tryst family!! It means the world to me that you connect with my words .. These words here are my soul speaking. It is me, raw and true and un-cut and real .. and I value every individual who visits the pages of Tryst!!

      Thank you for being you!! I look forward to more sharing of words with you!!

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The Demensions of it all…

This is my own space to write.  Writing is something that cleanses my mind and soul.  For as much as I enjoy writing, I also need it.  I have always been a deep thinker.  Always trying to analyze everything.  So I put my pen to paper to express these analytical thoughts of mine in books and journals, and over the years, I have quite a large collection of them.  This is my first blog, although I was introduced to the world of blogging many years ago, in my first semester of college. Here I find myself, many years later, a more refined writer and a woman who has many things to say.


At times, I am very poetic.  There have been times in my life where I was very lost and dark.  Other times, I am very straight forward and blunt.  I am an out-loud speaker of my mind and I don’t sacrifice who I am for the sake of others. I’m artistic and creative, and I crave, crave so much more out of this life that I call mine!  Too many times, it seems, people over look life as something we all just have… and become unfortunately blind to the gifts and virtues that we possess, that we can receive and experience from others, and that we can build and create, nourish and improve for ourselves as we move forward in time. 


Life is too short to bullshit.  I’ve learned this after going through enough bullshit of my own.  Time is too precious to waste. 

This I have learned after wasting too much of my time on people, situations and things that really were not worth it at all in the long run.  This, the wasting of time on unworthy people, I absolutely do not do anymore and it feels so great!  Sometimes I’m loud and other times not. At times I am polite and sweet, other times a little bold and sarcastic. I write about things I’ve done wrong., and things I’ve done right.  We all mess up, I’m a human being, I’d be ignorant to think otherwise.  I get frustrated with the ignorance of others.  Those ignorant people who walk around as if they have never made a mistake, or have the answers to everyone’s problems, or just handle everything so right and perfect. No one has all the answers, we are all in this together!  I try to bite my tongue, but sometimes I do slip and the words just fall out of my mouth, questioning someone on the very reason of their utter stupidity and if they are even aware of it…? It’s ok, we all have moments when we lack all reason…


  I find myself practicing really good levels of empathy, thoughtfulness, and patience lately.  (Much more patience now, than ever in my life…this has come with age and wisdom)  There are times when I would close my eyes and dream of being elsewhere… but the impossibility of some dreams brings me back to reality, and, I realize that where ever I am, that is exactly where I’m supposed to be.  I am the one who needs to teach my soul, teach it to open up and see what ever it is that I’m meant to see, where ever it is that I am… There is always a lesson to learn, always something to gain…  There are always ways to improve, to grow, to better refine my knowledge and wisdom’s.  Through my life so far, through all of my experiences, through all the things I have said, seen, and done, I am quite happy with who I am… Who I am becoming… 

And the journey continues…


24 responses to “About

  1. I really love the pink writing, and shades of … but those pink sparkly lips. Beautiful:)

    Down to earth & real : my kinda woman. Of course it’s all just self expression, and we all have a right to free our hearts & thoughts just so. This is a terrific ‘about’, and to my view sums up ‘The Dao of WordPress’.

    • You are too too kind!! Thank you for the kind words! I stressed more over my ‘about’ page than anything elde in here! It’s hard for me to sum up the many many things my mind & spirit think, feel, go through, look forward to, want, wish, crave, desire, need, dislike, find troublesome… you get where I’m going here, right? I’m honored that you stopped by.. please don’t be a stranger! Thank you Hotspur for hooking us up! ~J

    • Oh, I can validate that I’m real alright.. A real mess sometimes, a real sissy sometimes, a real pain in the ass too.. On a serious note, I have been through a ‘real’ lot. I’m very into Buddha, spirit, the earth and all it’s elements.. I’m so right brained that I’ve gone in circles all my life! Since I reached my 30’s though, I’ve balanced out nicely. I’m a new blogger and I am just in love with it! I get lost in Tryst world for hours! I can write for days, have been writing my whole life, ever since I could pick up a crayon! I love connecting with other writer too, sharing words and experiences.. My husband feels neglected since the beginning of Tryst! (See, sorry, didn’t mean to write a book here..) Please come visit anytime! You will see me around your place too.. ~Jen:)

  2. Wow! I had to read this after seeing you commented on my blog. You have some inspiring thoughts here beginning with, “life is to short…” I guess I’m much older than you but I’m just beginning to learn these things.

    • I have been collecting my wisdoms since I could first understand things… I am always picking things apart, trying to figure out, learn more, seeking knowledge where ever I can find it. Life is so short. Too short. I fear, sometimes, that my time will run out before I’ve done everything I want to do. I am so happy to have you here on Tryst! Come by anytime! I’m always writing… XoXo ~ Jen

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    • Yay!! I got it baby cakes!! I published it just now.. so tomorrow when you wake up for the day, you will have a pingback and you can see the final piece on Tryst! You really pulled something good and fun out of me with this one Neeraj!! I love it.. don’t you..? XOXO

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  9. Hello beautiful friend, there is always so much soul to read on your page and I just wanted to drop by and let you know that I have nominated you for a reader appreciation award for the beautiful words you fill your pages with. Come by my site anytime and copy the award for yourself, with love xo Deb

    • Wow Debby, this is such an honor! I am so humbled by this award because I am truly moved, and I so appreciate the wonderful writing and work of so many others, you included my friend!

      So, with that said, I can think of so many who deserve this award before myself and my writing, but in this case, I am so happy to hear that you enjoy and appreciate my writing and my words. I appreciate you being a part of my Tryst family very much!

      I will go check out this wonderful gift you have given to me, and to Tryst, on your space. Is it just on your front page? I guess if I can’t find it, I’ll contact you!!

      Thanks again. Thank you so much! I am so honored and grateful for this and for you as my friend!!


  10. Hi Jen,

    I haven’t heard back from you in a while, and no response to my last email, so I figured I would try you here. I hope everything is okay, and that you are just too busy to come up for air. I hope to hear from you soon my dear friend. I could use some of your brilliant and beautiful soulshine.
    Take care, and get back to me when ya can.


  11. Heya J. Thank you for the email response. I was so glad to hear from you and so glad you are peeking into your Tryst world again. I have been missing you. I have a theory on the whole “reason why positive compassionate sensitive people such as You and I tend to muse on the darker side at times. I will fill you in on it via email so I can elaborate. Anyway, SOOO glad to see you back and Hope you are feeling better

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The Art of Writing ~



The Art of Writing


Have you ever been asked, Who you are? Do you know? How would you answer? Who really knows who you are, who I am, especially, if even I don’t.  There is a large space between knowing OF me and actually knowing WHO I AM.  Aquaitences, friends, loved ones, and family… I can honestly say, few actually have gotten to know me.  Through all the years, all the countless people, if you asked, only a select few actually know that I have written all my life.  Yes, I call myself a writer, but that is still only something that I do, I write.  It is not, who I am.  I remember when my husband and I were falling in love, in those wonderful moments in the beginning of our tryst as a couple, I read some of my things to him.  He said after all the years of knowing me, (we were friends for 15 years before we established each other as one), he had no idea that I was a writer.  To this day he is my biggest fan and is always the first to hear the pieces I write.  My first post, Think.Speak.Tryst, explains the path of this blog in detail.  I feel that after all this time, all the years I have dedicated to improving my writing abilities, I’m motivated to writing my first blog and getting my words out there for others to see…

It is known that I am my own biggest critic.  I am not shy.  I’m very proud of who I am.  I have a love for writing and poetic expression that grows more and more, just as I do.  Some may like the things I write, some may not.  Some may understand, and others may not.  Although this blog is out there for anyone to see, Still, I write just for me.  I have always enjoyed reading the work of other thinkers and writers, just like myself.  For those that enjoy, I am pleased to have made an impression through the art of writing.




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