The Demensions of it all…

This is my own space to write.  Writing is something that cleanses my mind and soul.  For as much as I enjoy writing, I also need it.  I have always been a deep thinker.  Always trying to analyze everything.  So I put my pen to paper to express these analytical thoughts of mine in books and journals, and over the years, I have quite a large collection of them.  This is my first blog, although I was introduced to the world of blogging many years ago, in my first semester of college. Here I find myself, many years later, a more refined writer and a woman who has many things to say.


At times, I am very poetic.  There have been times in my life where I was very lost and dark.  Other times, I am very straight forward and blunt.  I am an out-loud speaker of my mind and I don’t sacrifice who I am for the sake of others. I’m artistic and creative, and I crave, crave so much more out of this life that I call mine!  Too many times, it seems, people over look life as something we all just have… and become unfortunately blind to the gifts and virtues that we possess, that we can receive and experience from others, and that we can build and create, nourish and improve for ourselves as we move forward in time. 


Life is too short to bullshit.  I’ve learned this after going through enough bullshit of my own.  Time is too precious to waste. 

This I have learned after wasting too much of my time on people, situations and things that really were not worth it at all in the long run.  This, the wasting of time on unworthy people, I absolutely do not do anymore and it feels so great!  Sometimes I’m loud and other times not. At times I am polite and sweet, other times a little bold and sarcastic. I write about things I’ve done wrong., and things I’ve done right.  We all mess up, I’m a human being, I’d be ignorant to think otherwise.  I get frustrated with the ignorance of others.  Those ignorant people who walk around as if they have never made a mistake, or have the answers to everyone’s problems, or just handle everything so right and perfect. No one has all the answers, we are all in this together!  I try to bite my tongue, but sometimes I do slip and the words just fall out of my mouth, questioning someone on the very reason of their utter stupidity and if they are even aware of it…? It’s ok, we all have moments when we lack all reason…


  I find myself practicing really good levels of empathy, thoughtfulness, and patience lately.  (Much more patience now, than ever in my life…this has come with age and wisdom)  There are times when I would close my eyes and dream of being elsewhere… but the impossibility of some dreams brings me back to reality, and, I realize that where ever I am, that is exactly where I’m supposed to be.  I am the one who needs to teach my soul, teach it to open up and see what ever it is that I’m meant to see, where ever it is that I am… There is always a lesson to learn, always something to gain…  There are always ways to improve, to grow, to better refine my knowledge and wisdom’s.  Through my life so far, through all of my experiences, through all the things I have said, seen, and done, I am quite happy with who I am… Who I am becoming… 

And the journey continues…


24 responses to “About

  1. I really love the pink writing, and shades of … but those pink sparkly lips. Beautiful 🙂

    Down to earth & real : my kinda woman. Of course it’s all just self expression, and we all have a right to free our hearts & thoughts just so. This is a terrific ‘about’, and to my view sums up ‘The Dao of WordPress’.

    • You are too too kind!! Thank you for the kind words! I stressed more over my ‘about’ page than anything elde in here! It’s hard for me to sum up the many many things my mind & spirit think, feel, go through, look forward to, want, wish, crave, desire, need, dislike, find troublesome… you get where I’m going here, right? I’m honored that you stopped by.. please don’t be a stranger! Thank you Hotspur for hooking us up! ~J

    • Oh, I can validate that I’m real alright.. A real mess sometimes, a real sissy sometimes, a real pain in the ass too.. On a serious note, I have been through a ‘real’ lot. I’m very into Buddha, spirit, the earth and all it’s elements.. I’m so right brained that I’ve gone in circles all my life! Since I reached my 30’s though, I’ve balanced out nicely. I’m a new blogger and I am just in love with it! I get lost in Tryst world for hours! I can write for days, have been writing my whole life, ever since I could pick up a crayon! I love connecting with other writer too, sharing words and experiences.. My husband feels neglected since the beginning of Tryst! (See, sorry, didn’t mean to write a book here..) Please come visit anytime! You will see me around your place too.. ~Jen 🙂

  2. Wow! I had to read this after seeing you commented on my blog. You have some inspiring thoughts here beginning with, “life is to short…” I guess I’m much older than you but I’m just beginning to learn these things.

    • I have been collecting my wisdoms since I could first understand things… I am always picking things apart, trying to figure out, learn more, seeking knowledge where ever I can find it. Life is so short. Too short. I fear, sometimes, that my time will run out before I’ve done everything I want to do. I am so happy to have you here on Tryst! Come by anytime! I’m always writing… XoXo ~ Jen

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    • Yay!! I got it baby cakes!! I published it just now.. so tomorrow when you wake up for the day, you will have a pingback and you can see the final piece on Tryst! You really pulled something good and fun out of me with this one Neeraj!! I love it.. don’t you..? XOXO

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  9. Hello beautiful friend, there is always so much soul to read on your page and I just wanted to drop by and let you know that I have nominated you for a reader appreciation award for the beautiful words you fill your pages with. Come by my site anytime and copy the award for yourself, with love xo Deb

    • Wow Debby, this is such an honor! I am so humbled by this award because I am truly moved, and I so appreciate the wonderful writing and work of so many others, you included my friend!

      So, with that said, I can think of so many who deserve this award before myself and my writing, but in this case, I am so happy to hear that you enjoy and appreciate my writing and my words. I appreciate you being a part of my Tryst family very much!

      I will go check out this wonderful gift you have given to me, and to Tryst, on your space. Is it just on your front page? I guess if I can’t find it, I’ll contact you!!

      Thanks again. Thank you so much! I am so honored and grateful for this and for you as my friend!!


  10. Hi Jen,

    I haven’t heard back from you in a while, and no response to my last email, so I figured I would try you here. I hope everything is okay, and that you are just too busy to come up for air. I hope to hear from you soon my dear friend. I could use some of your brilliant and beautiful soulshine.
    Take care, and get back to me when ya can.


  11. Heya J. Thank you for the email response. I was so glad to hear from you and so glad you are peeking into your Tryst world again. I have been missing you. I have a theory on the whole “reason why positive compassionate sensitive people such as You and I tend to muse on the darker side at times. I will fill you in on it via email so I can elaborate. Anyway, SOOO glad to see you back and Hope you are feeling better

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