When I’m Alone

 
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When I’m Alone
 
When everyone has gone
I’m in the presence of just me
My spirit and I play games
We argue with what we see
 
There is no outside noise
No chatter from other voices
But my mind is loud as always
Battling all my life’s choices
 
I go back and forth
From good to bad to everything
In the space in between
Living inside of nightmarish dreams
 
My angels are strong
Standing up to my devils everyday
Good fighting evil
Consuming my soul in every way
 
When I am alone
I’m not really alone at all
I’m stuck with my mind
Inside self prison made walls
 
Daily I think
In memory of my innocence
My own reflection reminding
Of my spirits remembrance
 
The years have slowly taken
The person I was born to be
When I am alone
I am haunted by me
 
~ J. Lefever ~
(04/29/13)
 
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Slither

 
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Slither
 
Like a snake in the garden
You are unwanted
Slithering through the green
Around you, like
You belong
Something holds me back from
Telling you so,
Fear
Oh I’m sure
Afraid of your poisonous bite
Poison seeping through its victims
Veins, crawling and killing
Until all that is left is
Its weak abandon
Shell of a girl I once was
You have taken everything
From me
Left me weak & alone
Many nights, tears fall in sadness
Wonder as to why
I was the victim of your
Own demise
As you came to me
Your poison came to
There was no escaping
Your reality
Like the snake that you are
Poisoning my delicate soul
Only to make me like you
But, listen
My heart will never be like you
My heart will never be black and blue
I am the sun that takes over the cloudy day
Eventually my light will
Be too bright for you
And just like you came
You will slither away
As empty as you arrived
Seeking someone to suffocate
 
~ J. Lefever ~
Written sometime in March…
 
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Fortress Walls

Fortress Walls

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Yellow, red and brown

Leaves that paint the tender ground

Sprinkled around the fortress walls

My fortress where my heart calls

Into the air

Out its windows

Trapped up behind the walls

Brick upon brick

I call to you

To anyone who

Will answer to my

Beckoning voice

I make not, huge demands

Just simplicity, in someones hands

To have and to hold

Away from this cold

This fortress, so strong

So carefully built

Upon rock and mountain

Hidding fear and guilt

I stand at its window

Looking down below

To see the colors of Fall

Scattered around my fortress walls

Should I just jump

Release my spirit from it all

Soar through the air

Away from the Fortress walls

And If I land

Back on the ground

Will I hear my fortress call

Luring me back behind its walls

~ J. Lefever ~

(02/21/13)

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Echo

Echo
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Noises bounce off the valley
From side to side
I hear my emotions
Singing a song
It hasn’t been long
I’m never alone
I hear my heart
It echos this time
Rhythm is a steady flow
Like a river
I’m constantly running
Always in motion
Turning and bending, I am
Resentment is my under-current
It’s been a while
No one could ever
Replace my spirit
Like this, who knew
My song would echo like this
On the painted sky
In the flowing river
You will find me
It’s been too long
~ J. Lefever ~
(02/17/13)
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Made of Water

Made of Water

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They fall

Without reprise

No hesitation,

As if I’m made of nothing else

Tears run down the mountain

Foot prints in the sand

Trace the path of

Where I’ve been

A lonely fish

Swimming the river

Of deceit and denial

Never stops to wonder

Why it’s alone, it never even bothers

Icicles melt

Into the ground

Heated by the sun

Flowers reach up to the warmth

Like I do when you’re around

But just like that

In a moment’s time

No hesitation,

None at all

A tear comes along,

Followed by another

As if my emotions are made of water

~ J. Lefever ~

(02/17/13)

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You May Never

You May Never

 

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Through the air

A Poison dart

Shot through my heart

And my soul fell to the floor

I stumbled around

Out of breath, until

I realized you were gone

Heart ache came

It hurts so bad

Needing you more & more

Finding myself

Calling your name

To the back of the closed-door

Inside of me

Inside my heart

Pain never will subside

Told that I

Am the one to blame

For you not being here

The truth in that

I despise so much

Deny it day after day

The absence of you

Rings silent in my mind

You must have your reasons

Why do I

Think it was only you

That needed to make the change

Ignorance on my behalf

To say I’m not to blame

Games I play

To win you back

Leave me standing still

Alone I’ll be

If I do not

Change my ways

You may never come back home

 

~ J. Lefever ~

(02/14/13)

 

This piece is dedicated to the lost & lonely.

This piece is to sing the song of the person who denies..

This piece is written to show that, some believe they are never at fault…

This piece, I hope, will reach someone who is hurting for their love….

This piece, I pray, will inspire someone to stand and make a change…..

 

 
 
 
 
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I’m Never Alone, I’m Alone All the Time

 

There are moments when the last thing I need is to be alone.  Sometimes when I get lost in my head, it is a very dangerous place to be.  My mind can wonder, it can worry and it can talk me into thinking that things are much worse than they really are.  Sometimes I need to humble myself and realize that even though I think I have all the answers, I don’t, and it’s not in my best interest to be alone with my thoughts. 

On the flip side, being alone allows me to look at every aspect of what I’m going through and internalize it to best fit my mental, emotional, spiritual and/or physical needs.  When I am faced with tough things in life, whether it’s self-induced, something traumatic or tragic that is out of my control or smaller difficulties that have an emotional connection or not, I need moments to myself where I can really just sit and think about how I am affected by the situation and the best way to get through it.  Because honestly, as selfish as this sounds, the most important person in my life, is me.  I will always have me, I can always count on me and I can’t go anywhere where I escape me.  No matter what, I will always be there.

It takes confidence, some internal stability and independence to be OK with being alone.  I have always enjoyed my alone time, and not just to get through tough moments, but to also be still, to relax and unwind.  It’s nice to go home to a quiet house sometimes.  It’s nice to run errands alone or exercise by my self.  I get all that good thinking done.  I also think that spending time with just myself, allows me to continue to get to know myself, thus continuing to build the most important relationship I will ever be in. 

There is a famous saying, “You cannot love another, unless you love yourself first,” I believe this to be so true and one of the pieces of wisdom’s that I was told at a very young age, yet, took years to understand fully, and even further, to practice and live by this knowledge and very wise piece of advice.  I cannot remember who the first person was that told me this, but if I knew, I would definitely find a way to thank them.  I will be passing this wisdom on, and I have, to those who are in need of hearing it.  Now, just because I was told this little bit of knowledge, and had the words running through my mind, that was all it was at first, words.  The knowledge of this wisdom came many years later, many years, after I had served more time in my life, learning to love myself after I have fallen, screwed up and done things that I regret.  Self forgiveness, or forgiving another, is one of the hardest things I have ever tried to do, and to do honestly.  Just because I say I forgive, doesn’t mean that I actually do.   Forgiveness is within, it is for my own soul first, not just for the one who is being forgiven.  And when a person needs to forgive themself, whether they say it or not, they truly know within if they mean it. 

I’m never alone, but I’m alone all the time.  I say this because even in the busyness of my day, each week, all month-long, with my job responsibilities and other appointments or obligations and dinners and events in the city, no matter where I am, I can be surrounded by people and still experience moments where I’m alone.  I say this because even though I have people in my life, the ones who are in my spirit and soul are only one or two… and for me, that is perfect.  I am not often completely alone, but when I am, I grately appreciate those moments.  And even when I am with others, either family or out in public, I’m still just surrounded with the physical beings of others, but my spirit, is alone…

  …and the time you have is precious, it is priceless… you can’t ever get time back. Like this moment, you will never get this moment ever again.  So why chose to live anyother way, than the best & most happiest ways you can?  Why waste even a single minute when you only live once?

It took all of my twenties before I felt this comfortable in my own skin, and wearing my own shoes!  Today, I wouldn’t change places with anyone!  I see things today that I have never seen before.  My past, all of my mistakes, and all of my success, has given me this wonderful collective wisdom, intuition and insight, experience with my age and knowledge that I have been taught by the most important person, me!  And the best part, no one can tell me otherwise.  I’m OK when I’m alone.  In fact, I really like it.  The title of this post is in face a lyric in a song.  In the late 90’s, grunge rock was very popular, and I was a huge fan of the band, Bush.  I still have a girlie crush on the lead singer, Gavin Rossdale.  The song was ‘Glycerine’, on the Bush album, ’16 Stone’.  I have remembered the words to that song all of these years, and when I read today’s ‘Daily Prompt’, I knew exactly what I would write about!!  That’s all for now…

~ Jen